First Impressions
The breakfast that changed everything
Picture this: You've just had the worst week of your life. You said you'd never abandon someone you loved, and then you did it three times in one night. You watched them die. And now, somehow, they're back—and they've made you breakfast.
That's where Peter is in this story. Jesus has been crucified and resurrected, and Peter's been fishing all night—probably trying to process everything, maybe trying to forget. When they get to shore, there's Jesus by a charcoal fire, cooking fish. The smell of that fire would have hit Peter hard. The last time he smelled charcoal burning, he was warming his hands and denying he even knew Jesus.
But Jesus doesn't bring up the denial. He brings up breakfast. He asks Peter the same question three times: "Do you love me?" Three denials, three chances to say yes. Three failures, three opportunities for restoration. This isn't an interrogation—it's an invitation back.
What's remarkable here is that Jesus doesn't wait for Peter to grovel or prove himself. He doesn't make him earn his way back into the group. Jesus goes looking for him. He meets him right where he is—at the lake, doing what he knows how to do, probably feeling like he's blown his one shot at following Jesus. And Jesus says, essentially, "We're not done yet. I still have plans for you."
That's the heart of this passage. Your failure isn't the end of your story. God's not done with you. He's actually coming to find you, to restore you, to give you another chance. Not because you've earned it, but because that's who He is.
Sit with this
- 1Is there an area of your life right now where you feel like you've failed and maybe God is done with you?
Journal prompt
Write about a time when you felt like you'd blown it—really messed up. How did that feel? Where do you think God was in that moment?