John 8:1-11 · 5-day study

No Stones to Throw

Going deeper on Craig Groeschel's sermon at Life.Church (Edmond, OK).

Week of Sep 20, 2026

The big idea

Jesus proves you never have to choose between truth and love - he held both at once with a woman about to be stoned, and that same both/and pattern is how we're meant to handle parenting, friendship, hard debates, and pain.

Day 1 · FreeJohn 8:1-11

First Impressions

A woman on trial, a trap set for Jesus, and one sentence that changes everything.

It's early morning and Jesus is sitting in the temple courts teaching, when the moment gets interrupted. A group of religious leaders drag a woman into the middle of the crowd. She's just been caught in adultery, and they throw her down in front of everyone like she's evidence in a trial. But here's the thing — this was never really about her. It was a trap. If Jesus says stone her, he looks harsh and breaks Roman law. If he says let her go, he looks like he's tossing out God's law. Either way, they think they've got him cornered.

And Jesus does something nobody expects. He doesn't answer right away. He bends down and starts writing in the dirt. The Bible doesn't tell us what he wrote — people have guessed for two thousand years — but the pause itself says something. He's not rushing to pick a side in their argument. He's letting the moment breathe. When they keep pushing him for an answer, he finally stands up and says one sentence that unravels the whole trap: "Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her." Then he goes back to writing in the dust like it's no big deal.

One by one, starting with the oldest, the accusers walk away. Nobody throws a stone. Eventually it's just Jesus and the woman left standing there. And what he says next is the whole point of the story. He doesn't excuse what she did. He doesn't pretend it didn't matter. But he also doesn't condemn her. "Neither do I condemn you," he says. "Go now and leave your life of sin." Grace and truth, both in the same breath.

This story lands different depending on where you see yourself in it. Maybe you've been the one exposed, humiliated, waiting for the verdict. Maybe you've been the one holding a stone, ready to point out someone else's mess because it feels safer than looking at your own. Either way, Jesus is in the middle of it, and he's not who anyone expected him to be. He doesn't flinch from hard situations or hard questions. He walks right into them, and somehow he leaves both truth and love fully intact. That's worth sitting with this week.

Sit with this

  1. 1When you picture this scene, who do you relate to most right now — the accusers with stones in their hands, the woman on trial, or Jesus in the middle? Why?

Journal prompt

Write about a time someone showed you grace when you expected judgment instead. What did that feel like, and how did it change the way you saw yourself?

Days 2–5 are in the app

Carry Craig Groeschel's sermon through the whole week.

  1. 2

    Look Closer

    What Jesus actually meant when he said, 'Neither do I condemn you.'

  2. 3

    What It Meant Then

    Why this whole scene was rigged from the start — and what Jesus saw that no one else did.

  3. 4

    The Hard Question

    Which is easier for you — holding a stone or setting one down?

  4. 5

    Carry It Forward

    This one moment in a temple courtyard is actually the whole story of the Bible in miniature.

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Where the passage connects

  • John 8:1-11

    This is the story of the woman caught in adultery, where Jesus stops her execution and then tells her both that he does not condemn her and that she should leave her sin, modeling grace and truth in a single breath.

  • John 17:15

    Jesus prays that his followers be protected rather than removed from the world, giving the pastor's model for raising kids who engage culture instead of hiding from it.

  • Galatians 6:1

    Paul's instruction to gently restore a believer caught in sin shapes the pastor's advice for approaching a Christian friend who is living against what they both claim to believe.

  • Colossians 4:5-6

    Paul's call to be wise and full of grace toward outsiders is used to argue that a nonbelieving friend should be led toward grace first, not held to rules he never signed up for.

  • 1 Timothy 2:12

    This is the key disputed verse in the women-in-ministry question, and the pastor weighs it against other Scripture patterns to explain, humbly, why he affirms women serving as pastors.

“He said to the woman, 'Neither do I condemn you.' And Jesus declared, 'Go now and leave your life of sin.' Grace and truth in one sentence.”

Craig Groeschel

“You can love someone without agreeing with everything they do. And you can disagree with someone without rejecting them.”

Craig Groeschel

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This study is an original devotional inspired by Craig Groeschel's message “There’s No Such Thing as a Bad Question Here” at Life.Church. Watch the original sermon.