Mark 10:17-22 · 5-day study

What Has Your Heart?

Going deeper on Josh Howerton's sermon at Lakepointe Church (Rockwall, TX).

Week of Oct 25, 2026

The big idea

Jesus gives the life we cannot earn, and following him means releasing whatever we trust more than him.

Day 1 · FreeMark 10:17-22

First Impressions

Before Jesus asks for anything, he looks at this man with love.

Some people meet Jesus when life falls apart. The man in Mark 10 meets him while he still has plenty to lose. He has money, a record of trying to do the right thing, and enough interest in Jesus to run up and kneel. Yet he has a question his success cannot answer: how can he inherit eternal life? Maybe you know that feeling. Your life can look fine from the outside while something inside keeps asking whether there is more. You might have a steady job, people who love you, or a calendar full of good things. None of those things can settle the deepest question of where you stand with God. This man brings that question straight to Jesus. That is a good place for us to begin, too. We do not have to clean up our questions before bringing them to him.

Jesus does not rush to make the man comfortable. First, he asks why the man calls him good, reminding him that goodness begins with God. Then he names several commandments about how people treat one another. The man says he has kept them since he was young. We might expect Jesus to argue with him or point out every failure. Instead, Mark gives us a detail worth slowing down for: Jesus looks at him and loves him. The difficult words that follow come from that love. Jesus tells him to sell what he owns, give to the poor, and follow him. His wealth is not just something he has. It has become something he cannot bear to release, even when Jesus invites him into a new life. Jesus puts his finger on the place where this man's trust is stuck.

The man walks away sad because he has great wealth. That ending is painful because he wanted an answer, but the answer asked more of him than he expected. Still, notice what Jesus offered: not simply a smaller bank account, but a life spent following him. The invitation was personal. This passage gives us room to ask what we are holding so tightly that we struggle to take Jesus at his word. Money deserves an honest look here, even if we would rather talk about something else. Our need for control or approval may also come into view. Today, start with the order Mark gives us: Jesus looks, Jesus loves, and Jesus calls. You are not being asked to make yourself worth loving. You are being invited to trust the one whose love can tell you the truth. Let that be the starting point for an honest conversation with him.

Sit with this

  1. 1What part of your life feels hardest to place in Jesus' hands right now?

Journal prompt

Finish these two sentences: 'Jesus, I came looking for...' and 'I am afraid you might ask me to...' Then write a short prayer that tells him why that fear feels real.

Days 2–5 are in the app

Carry Josh Howerton's sermon through the whole week.

  1. 2

    Look Closer

    Following Jesus reaches deeper than adding another good deed.

  2. 3

    What It Meant Then

    A surprising invitation in a world where wealth looked like blessing.

  3. 4

    The Hard Question

    What happens when Jesus touches the thing you keep protecting?

  4. 5

    Carry It Forward

    The one who asks you to trust him has already given himself for you.

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Where the passage connects

  • Mark 10:17-22; Exodus 20:1-17; Matthew 6:21

    Jesus lovingly exposes the ruler’s attachment to wealth, using the commandments to reveal how possessions can block obedience and show where the heart’s loyalty lies.

  • Isaiah 58:12

    God’s promise of rebuilding broken places gives the church’s initiative its purpose: serving people now in ways that can bless later generations.

  • Genesis 2:7

    God breathing life into Adam pictures our dependence on our Maker and supports the invitation to find fulfillment in a close relationship with him.

  • John 1:4; John 6:35; John 10:10; John 11:25; John 14:6

    These passages identify Jesus as the source of lasting, abundant life, explaining why the ruler brings his deepest question to the right person.

  • John 3:16; John 19:30

    God’s gift of his Son and Jesus’ completed work on the cross explain why rescue is received through him rather than earned through good behavior or sacrifice.

“You can have everything on the outside and you can be empty on the inside.”

Josh Howerton

“What would you be unwilling to give up to follow Jesus?”

Josh Howerton

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This study is an original devotional inspired by Josh Howerton's message “What Is Keeping You From Fully Following Jesus? | Pastor Josh Howerton” at Lakepointe Church. Watch the original sermon.