First Impressions
Turns out you're a leader too — you just didn't know it yet.
If the word "leader" makes you think of someone else — the pastor, your boss, the team captain — Paul's about to mess with that assumption. Titus is a short letter from an older pastor to a younger one, and it opens with this huge, run-on sentence about truth and godliness and hope before Paul ever says why he's writing. That's on purpose. Before Paul tells Titus what to do, he wants him to remember what's true. Faith leads to truth, truth leads to godliness, godliness leads to hope. What you believe shapes what you become — that's the whole engine of this letter.
Then Paul gets practical. He'd left Titus on the island of Crete — a big island, dozens of towns, churches that were basically a mess — with one job: find leaders and put things back in order. And the list he gives isn't a resume. Nobody has to be a great speaker or run a big organization. The list is about character: is this person faithful to their spouse? Do their kids see something real at home? Are they even-tempered, honest, hospitable, not chasing every appetite they have? Can people trust what they see?
Here's the part that should catch you off guard: this list wasn't written for a small group of professional pastors. Every single person reading this has a sphere of influence — a roommate who watches how you handle stress, a kid who's learning what "faith" looks like by watching your Sunday-to-Tuesday consistency, a coworker who notices whether your integrity holds up when nobody's checking. You don't need a title to be a leader. You just need someone paying attention to your life — and someone already is. This week isn't about becoming impressive. It's about becoming trustworthy in the places you already have influence, one ordinary day at a time.
Sit with this
- 1Where in your life right now are you already leading someone, even if you've never thought of yourself as a leader?
Journal prompt
Name one specific person or group who is watching your life right now — a kid, a roommate, a coworker, a friend. Write down what you hope they're learning about faith just from watching you live your normal week.