First Impressions
A father who runs
There's this moment in the story that stops me every time. A young man has just blown through his inheritance — we're talking everything his dad worked for, gone. Spent on parties, bad decisions, and people who disappeared the second his wallet was empty. He ends up in a pig pen, literally, which for a Jewish kid was about as low as you could go. And he decides to go home.
But here's the thing: he's not expecting a party. He's rehearsing a speech. "Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I'm not worthy to be called your son. Just make me one of your hired servants." He's ready to grovel. Ready to earn his way back in, one day at a time.
And then his father sees him. While he's still far off. The dad doesn't wait on the porch with crossed arms. He doesn't make his son walk the whole way in shame. He runs. In that culture, grown men didn't run — it was undignified, embarrassing even. But this father hitches up his robe and sprints down the road. He throws his arms around his son before the kid can even get the speech out. Best robe. Family ring. Sandals. A feast.
The son came home expecting consequences. The father threw a party.
This is the story Jesus told to help us understand what God is like. Not a distant judge waiting to see if we've learned our lesson. Not a disappointed parent who'll let us back in but never really trust us again. A father who runs. Who sees us from far off. Who can't wait to close the gap.
Maybe you've been the younger son — you know what it's like to come home after messing up. Or maybe you're the older brother in this story, the one who stayed home and did everything right but somehow feels like the party's never for him. Either way, this story is an invitation to see the Father's heart. And it's wild. It's reckless. It's way more generous than we'd ever be.
That's the point.
Sit with this
- 1When you think about God, do you picture someone who's waiting for you to mess up, or someone who's running toward you?
Journal prompt
Write about a time you felt far from God. What would it look like for Him to run toward you in that moment?